Jealousy and envy are not often differentiated in the Sanskrit dictionaries because the people that made them in the late 1800s did not differentiate between these two emotions. I made a clear distinction between jealousy and envy below and I associate Sanskrit words with each. It would be a dissertation itself to look at the actual use of these words within the Sanskrit context to truly differentiate the usage. Below is my conjecture with īrsya being clearly jealousy (not envy) as the Āyurvedic texts consider that it can become a mental disease and western psychology understands the below attributes of jealousy as a treatable issue to be addressed in practice.
Jealousy -matsara, mātsarya, īrṣya |
Envy – spharda, spṛha, asūya,
vakradṛṣṭi |
Jealousy is fearing a loss of
something you already have. |
Envy or coveting is desiring
something that belongs to someone else. |
Upset you might lose something you
have, may involve rage and vindictiveness, |
Wanting something you don't have. |
Natural goal- protect our most valued
bonds Hyper-aroused fight part is
grasping, |
Natural goal- brain’s Default Mode
Network- future planning, past remembering, and comparing- this comparing
helps us understand who we are. |
Invokes feelings of inadequacy or humiliation-
feeling be-littled or done better by someone else, better house, better job. “He might like her more than me.” Problematic when partner is objectified
to be possessed, or jealousy is stuck and causing despair- then partner blamed
for negative feeling. It makes one minimize others and blocks
the ability to celebrate people close to you. Āyurveda- jealousy (īrṣya) can become a mental illness where are person is controlling their partner and doing negative actions fueled by these emotions. |
Comparing doesn't make us feel
good most of the time. Sanskrit: Spṛhaṇa- longing for, striving after, generalized
envy for something desirable/ appreciated |
Medicine: Confidence/security and
Trust, Accept the ‘not good enough’
feeling is inside. (Sun and Venus) |
Medicine: appreciating what we
have. |
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